We always hear people talking about love and these people have their own perspective about love itself,normally based on their past relationships.My mother always told me that 'orang yg baik akan mendapat jodoh yg baik'.Do you agree with that statement?I let you be the judge of it. Speaking of which,i've been in a relationship like many times and i gotta say im pessimistic when it comes to a relationship.I've already seen and met billions of men with different 'faces' with different stats.What do we,women,want from men?personally,myself i'd prefer a man with brain not a man with the look.Normally the latter is less smarter and the proportion of a man to possess both qualities are very small.I believe that when ones have good education,he can make profit out of it and often going places(what im trying to say is they have bright future and all that).
Second,ones must have good attitude and good background.Last but not least,ones who would love me unconditionally for who i am.These are only the basic actually, before you are in a real relationship, and normally a woman or man set a certain standard for her/his soulmate to be which i sort of believe that everyone of you out there have set few standards in seeking your mr/ms right. Moving on,assume that you are now in a relationship.Of course you love your girlfriend/boyfriend, no question there and i believe that every couples wanted to marry their girlfriend/boyfriend when the time has come(the intention that counts).The thing is how are you gonna make your relationship work until you reach to 'your big day' destination?Another thing is,especially for those who are already been together for quite some times(say, 5-8 years, how do you create the spark in your relationship to make the relationship more keener?
Last night, i watched 'The Break-up' movie (starring Jennifer Aniston and Vincent Vaughn).Honestly i think the guy is such an arse.He didn't know what he already had.I never met a very selfishly self-centered man like him.You see guys, no matter how boring you are when your girlfriend asked you to accompany her going to the shopping malls or watching a stupid boy band that you hate(coz you think they're a big time loser or whatsoever it is), anything that against your likeness.It's not like we wanted you to accompany us for fun(suka2) coz we have girlfriends to have that fun.
The reason why we ask you to come with us is because that we wanna spend time with you guys.Every single second is valuable every time girlfriends spend time with their boyfriends and beside it is so much fun and more enjoyable to do stuff together with boyfriends(disamping mengeratkan silaturahim huhu).I mean, fun that you couldn't find at any girlfriends.Well yeah, think about it.It brings the couple much closer together.The boyfriend knows something about his girlfriend that he didn't know before and vice versa(i guess).What im trying to say is, you get to know your boyfriend/girlfriend much better each day,as you spend more time with him/her.Sometimes we don't know or do not realised what is infront of us or what we already have..not until we lost it.Have you ever experienced it?It scarred for life!Like one of my girlfriend whom i very close with,she's a nice lady in many ways and always become the centre of attention among guys.When we were in Year 2 at UBD, she met a guy who had ultimately changed her life like forever(this is just my opinion).We always share stuff together and she told me how happy she was.Im happy for her too.One day her boyfriend asked her if she could live without him.Well, sometimes she can be naively stupid and her egos..oh my god..i don't even think it would fits to enter the Mall shopping complex.Yes, that big.Of course she said she could live without him.Then her boyfriend said how can she be so sure coz she hasn't experienced it yet.To cut the long story short,her boyfriend was staying in KB so every weekend her boyfriend went to BSB and have a sleepover at my girlfriend's.They dating for a short time only, for 5-6 months.I tell ya, she didn't faced it very well.I felt sorry for her.It took her about more than 2 years to start dating again.She always said to me that if i ever find my mr.right already, grab him but not too tight coz i may lose him and not to loose as well.Well she said something to me..She said she could't believed that it hit on her and she told me that if she could trade him with her degree she would(awww...).Because it is meaningless to hold a degree without him by his side and she was expecting to celebrate her graduation day with him(breaking up with him was so beyond the expectation).Well at least she got me.It's not like the end of the world or anything. That's not all.
Back to the main subject, what does a woman want from her man?Once you are in a relationship, the very basic ingredients in every relationship are trust, believe, have faith, being honest, loyal and so forth.It's not like we, women, asking so much from men like diamonds or pearls.No..Not that..What's the point of having all these diamonds and pearls(ust figure of speech, if you may) or lots of money when you can't have the man or woman that you love most in your life?All we want is your love and attention.Attention and love.Is that too much to ask?When we said i love you and i can't live without you, we frickin mean it.When we asked where have you been, what's your plan later, going out with whom bla bla bla that's only because we frickin care.That's because you mean something for us, not just anybody but somebody who means alot to us.We just wanna know what you guys have been up to.Basically we just simply wanna know how your day have been.That's all.We absolutely love to be there for you guys.Me personally wish that i could be there for him everytime he needs me.Cry with him, laugh with him..everything.But when we care about you guys, you might said we're controlling your life or overreacting or whatever the reason is you guys have in your filthy mind.Is it wrong to show your concern to someone that you love?Life is so unpredictable and life is too short people.What if today is the last day you'd be seeing her/him?Have that ever come across to your mind?It is too late to regret by then when he/she's already gone forever.My point is,appreaciate the one that you have right now.Like i said, life is unpredictable, anything possibly could happened.Sometimes it could be beyond our imagination.Never fail to say i love you to your partner.Express your emotions, tell him/her what you feel inside.Let him/her know.If you feel dissatisfied over something, talk nicely and try to work things out on what to do or not to do in the future.There are millions of ways to express your feelings to your partner. Now,how do you create the spark again in your relationship?For a start, by saying i love you.Again, always express your feelings to your partner and tell them what's on your mind--get 'em off from your chest dude.Once in a while, it is nice to take her out for dinner sometimes and watch movies like the old times.Give your partner a gift, you don't have to wait till their birthdays for god sake.It'd help to cheer them up.For those who are in a relationship for long time already, how long the relationship is not matter.What matter here most is,how deep do you understand your partner--his/her likes or dislikes, good and bad habits, behaviour and attidude etc.Same thing goes to the married couple as well.
Marriage is not the end or the last stage of a relationship and marriage is definitely not a destination.Once you are married that is when your real journey begun.When you marry your boyfriend/girlfriend, you learn more and more things from him and in fact, it is only the beginning.Although you are married already, it is nice to hear the three words once in a while from your partner.It feels that you are being appreaciated and appreciated, and your existence are acknowledged. If any one of you thinking about breaking up, you should think about it thoroughly.Think about all the times that you have spent with your partner--all the laughter and tears, ups and downs etc.Don't simply throw away your relationship just like that just because of the third party that you barely knew a moment ago.Just to be fair, what comes around goes around.Today you hurt his/her feelings, you stomp and trample their heart like s***, perhaps tomorrow your heart got torn on.Especially the married couples, divorce is not always the answer to your problem.Like the old malay saying, patah tumbuh hilang berganti.True..But it's gonna be different with the previous tumbuhan a.k.a plant.Perhaps the regrowth new plant has thorns or can easily die compared to the previous one.The thing is, it's just not the same and never be the same.We always make mistake.No doubt.Try to be more tolerant and considerate to one another.Communication is very significant in every relationship, so try to communicate with your partner as often as you possibly could.Oh..and don't forget to say thank you to your partner in whatever they have done for you, even if its the simplest thing like praising your beauty.By doing so, you make your partner feel appreciated and happy.Never fail to do that.Guys(also girls)when your girlfriends asking and wanting your attention you better give them one for god sake.It will mean alot to them.Seriously.Most importantly is, you have shown your appreciation to your beloved one in a way; it shows how important they are in your life in such a way it tells your girlfriend/boyfriend that they have become part of your life.In my personal view, which you don't have to agree with me by all means,i think that the Twilight couple(Edward & Bella) makes the best role-model couple in a relationship.Of course i know the fact that we always do stupid things in a relationship.I suggest every couples(include the married couples as well) to watch that movie.Try to learn to quote from the movie as well huhu..I also recommend you to watch 'The Notebook'.Two thumbs up!It never fails to make me cry everytime i watch that movie.It's a touching true story.I called it 'Romeo & Juliet'(coz kalah the original R & J which i found not so romantic at all).Go to your any nearby dvd store and grab one.You won't regret it.Start to express your emotions today and don't forget...
p/s: I love you...
Second,ones must have good attitude and good background.Last but not least,ones who would love me unconditionally for who i am.These are only the basic actually, before you are in a real relationship, and normally a woman or man set a certain standard for her/his soulmate to be which i sort of believe that everyone of you out there have set few standards in seeking your mr/ms right. Moving on,assume that you are now in a relationship.Of course you love your girlfriend/boyfriend, no question there and i believe that every couples wanted to marry their girlfriend/boyfriend when the time has come(the intention that counts).The thing is how are you gonna make your relationship work until you reach to 'your big day' destination?Another thing is,especially for those who are already been together for quite some times(say, 5-8 years, how do you create the spark in your relationship to make the relationship more keener?
Last night, i watched 'The Break-up' movie (starring Jennifer Aniston and Vincent Vaughn).Honestly i think the guy is such an arse.He didn't know what he already had.I never met a very selfishly self-centered man like him.You see guys, no matter how boring you are when your girlfriend asked you to accompany her going to the shopping malls or watching a stupid boy band that you hate(coz you think they're a big time loser or whatsoever it is), anything that against your likeness.It's not like we wanted you to accompany us for fun(suka2) coz we have girlfriends to have that fun.
The reason why we ask you to come with us is because that we wanna spend time with you guys.Every single second is valuable every time girlfriends spend time with their boyfriends and beside it is so much fun and more enjoyable to do stuff together with boyfriends(disamping mengeratkan silaturahim huhu).I mean, fun that you couldn't find at any girlfriends.Well yeah, think about it.It brings the couple much closer together.The boyfriend knows something about his girlfriend that he didn't know before and vice versa(i guess).What im trying to say is, you get to know your boyfriend/girlfriend much better each day,as you spend more time with him/her.Sometimes we don't know or do not realised what is infront of us or what we already have..not until we lost it.Have you ever experienced it?It scarred for life!Like one of my girlfriend whom i very close with,she's a nice lady in many ways and always become the centre of attention among guys.When we were in Year 2 at UBD, she met a guy who had ultimately changed her life like forever(this is just my opinion).We always share stuff together and she told me how happy she was.Im happy for her too.One day her boyfriend asked her if she could live without him.Well, sometimes she can be naively stupid and her egos..oh my god..i don't even think it would fits to enter the Mall shopping complex.Yes, that big.Of course she said she could live without him.Then her boyfriend said how can she be so sure coz she hasn't experienced it yet.To cut the long story short,her boyfriend was staying in KB so every weekend her boyfriend went to BSB and have a sleepover at my girlfriend's.They dating for a short time only, for 5-6 months.I tell ya, she didn't faced it very well.I felt sorry for her.It took her about more than 2 years to start dating again.She always said to me that if i ever find my mr.right already, grab him but not too tight coz i may lose him and not to loose as well.Well she said something to me..She said she could't believed that it hit on her and she told me that if she could trade him with her degree she would(awww...).Because it is meaningless to hold a degree without him by his side and she was expecting to celebrate her graduation day with him(breaking up with him was so beyond the expectation).Well at least she got me.It's not like the end of the world or anything. That's not all.
Back to the main subject, what does a woman want from her man?Once you are in a relationship, the very basic ingredients in every relationship are trust, believe, have faith, being honest, loyal and so forth.It's not like we, women, asking so much from men like diamonds or pearls.No..Not that..What's the point of having all these diamonds and pearls(ust figure of speech, if you may) or lots of money when you can't have the man or woman that you love most in your life?All we want is your love and attention.Attention and love.Is that too much to ask?When we said i love you and i can't live without you, we frickin mean it.When we asked where have you been, what's your plan later, going out with whom bla bla bla that's only because we frickin care.That's because you mean something for us, not just anybody but somebody who means alot to us.We just wanna know what you guys have been up to.Basically we just simply wanna know how your day have been.That's all.We absolutely love to be there for you guys.Me personally wish that i could be there for him everytime he needs me.Cry with him, laugh with him..everything.But when we care about you guys, you might said we're controlling your life or overreacting or whatever the reason is you guys have in your filthy mind.Is it wrong to show your concern to someone that you love?Life is so unpredictable and life is too short people.What if today is the last day you'd be seeing her/him?Have that ever come across to your mind?It is too late to regret by then when he/she's already gone forever.My point is,appreaciate the one that you have right now.Like i said, life is unpredictable, anything possibly could happened.Sometimes it could be beyond our imagination.Never fail to say i love you to your partner.Express your emotions, tell him/her what you feel inside.Let him/her know.If you feel dissatisfied over something, talk nicely and try to work things out on what to do or not to do in the future.There are millions of ways to express your feelings to your partner. Now,how do you create the spark again in your relationship?For a start, by saying i love you.Again, always express your feelings to your partner and tell them what's on your mind--get 'em off from your chest dude.Once in a while, it is nice to take her out for dinner sometimes and watch movies like the old times.Give your partner a gift, you don't have to wait till their birthdays for god sake.It'd help to cheer them up.For those who are in a relationship for long time already, how long the relationship is not matter.What matter here most is,how deep do you understand your partner--his/her likes or dislikes, good and bad habits, behaviour and attidude etc.Same thing goes to the married couple as well.
Marriage is not the end or the last stage of a relationship and marriage is definitely not a destination.Once you are married that is when your real journey begun.When you marry your boyfriend/girlfriend, you learn more and more things from him and in fact, it is only the beginning.Although you are married already, it is nice to hear the three words once in a while from your partner.It feels that you are being appreaciated and appreciated, and your existence are acknowledged. If any one of you thinking about breaking up, you should think about it thoroughly.Think about all the times that you have spent with your partner--all the laughter and tears, ups and downs etc.Don't simply throw away your relationship just like that just because of the third party that you barely knew a moment ago.Just to be fair, what comes around goes around.Today you hurt his/her feelings, you stomp and trample their heart like s***, perhaps tomorrow your heart got torn on.Especially the married couples, divorce is not always the answer to your problem.Like the old malay saying, patah tumbuh hilang berganti.True..But it's gonna be different with the previous tumbuhan a.k.a plant.Perhaps the regrowth new plant has thorns or can easily die compared to the previous one.The thing is, it's just not the same and never be the same.We always make mistake.No doubt.Try to be more tolerant and considerate to one another.Communication is very significant in every relationship, so try to communicate with your partner as often as you possibly could.Oh..and don't forget to say thank you to your partner in whatever they have done for you, even if its the simplest thing like praising your beauty.By doing so, you make your partner feel appreciated and happy.Never fail to do that.Guys(also girls)when your girlfriends asking and wanting your attention you better give them one for god sake.It will mean alot to them.Seriously.Most importantly is, you have shown your appreciation to your beloved one in a way; it shows how important they are in your life in such a way it tells your girlfriend/boyfriend that they have become part of your life.In my personal view, which you don't have to agree with me by all means,i think that the Twilight couple(Edward & Bella) makes the best role-model couple in a relationship.Of course i know the fact that we always do stupid things in a relationship.I suggest every couples(include the married couples as well) to watch that movie.Try to learn to quote from the movie as well huhu..I also recommend you to watch 'The Notebook'.Two thumbs up!It never fails to make me cry everytime i watch that movie.It's a touching true story.I called it 'Romeo & Juliet'(coz kalah the original R & J which i found not so romantic at all).Go to your any nearby dvd store and grab one.You won't regret it.Start to express your emotions today and don't forget...
p/s: I love you...
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