1.Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.FabChick:So true...
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.FabChick:Really?Is that so?
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."FabChick:Yeah..Like my ex.No is surely not an option
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.FabChick:*scoffs*Who doesn't..
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. FabChick:Yeah i know..That's why i keep quiet most of all the time.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.Fabchick:So true!
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.FabChick:So am i..I love brainy guys
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.FabChick:I told him don't ever bother to buy me a stuffed toy huhu..
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!FabChick:Hahaha..So i've heard
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!FabChick:*nodded*
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.FabChick:I think i already told him that i don't want to get myself hurt anymore
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.FabChick:*nodded*
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."FabChick:Naah..He really mean leaves him alone
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.FabChick:I always do
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.FabChick:I do but sometimes i got distracted huhu
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!FabChick:That..surely something i did not know hahaha...
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.FabChick:I truly understand..
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!FabChick:*nodded* i know..
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up.
He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!FabChick:LOL
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.FabChick:Amen to that
Friday, 29 January 2010
Tuesday, 26 January 2010
Waiting and Still Waiting
Now im at the hospital and still waiting for my sister's turn.So while we're waiting,there's this uncle in his early 50s sat in front of us.Talkative and friendly he is.Cun lah jumpa dengan orang yang talkative(me) makin tah menjadi huhu..He complaints about the poor services performed by the whoever doc is on duty.He added this is the main reason why he prefer to go to the private clinic rather than waiting for hours.And now its fifteen minutes to four.Oh back to that uncle huhu..He claimed he was about to menyamal already huhu..Biasalah orang tua memang kuat menyamal.We've been waiting for more than an hour already.During the waiting session i can't help myself but notice that there are many interns,very young indeed.They all look pretty busy with their patient files and thick files huhu..Most of them are males and good looking too hehe..My point is im proud with them as they are the assets of nation.And what can i see too,there'll be more and more local faces(anak jati Brunei) taking over in the health industry coz if we traced back say 20 years ago most doctors were Indians and some were Chinese.For Indian doctors as i remembered the 'ice breaking' questions would be 'Apa sakit..?'.So it is good to see more and more local faces in civil services particularly in hospitals and clinics.They're not only doing good deeds for the society but also for their beloved country Negara Brunei Darussalam.Its not what the country can do for you but its what you can do for the country.Familiar?Me think so...
Monday, 25 January 2010
One Morning...
When i woke up this morning i still feel heavily sleepy huhu..I get up and head to the kitchen and prepare myself a breakfast.I had pancakes and cornflake with almond cereal.To cut the long story short my dad asked me something when i was in the kitchen busy preparing myself a breakfast.
(Conversation between me and my dad)
Dad:Lai, ada alai dangar berita pasal blog yang menghina Sultan Johor?
Me:*blur* apa?menghina?nada eh..ntah ah alai alum buka blog lagi
Dad:Yatah tadi ada dalam berita pasal blog bla bla bla bla ani
Me:Ooohh...*hurriedly heading back to my room and switch on my laptop*
Less than 7 minutes later...
Me:Awu yah..ada..ayah mau baca?
Dad:I'll read it later.
My Comment
When i was reading that blog,i tell you i was also meruap.Why?Coz our country is a sultanate.Seriously, my hand is so damn itchy to write a comment on that issue.This the main reason why i bring this matter up but sadly i remember what my mom told me when i told her about me creating my own blog."Lai, blogging atu inda salah...Tapi promise me one thing, jangan sekali-kali involve dalam politik..Apa2 jua politik!".(ironically everytime she gets the chance meeting YB she always said "Tolong rakyat YB bila rakyat bla bla bla bla bla and bla..).
A simple yet strict warning.Aish!Berat sungguh bahu memikul huhu...But heck yeah i know my limit.Im an outsider.I have no rights at all to get myself involved.
My piece of advice to whom it may concern, kalau sudah diri kurang ajar lagi biadap apatah lagi orang luar and macam mana tah orang luar kan hormat. Quoting from Dr M,"Timbul rasa tak kesian saye" huhu..Memang nada study sivik or social studies ni dulu masanya kanak-kanak.Ntah2 memang inda pernah skulah huhu..Cian~Yatah ajaran "skulah"nya ni.Yang aku heran(yang sebenarnya inda heran lah coz aku memang tau dari awal dorang ani *tut* maklumlah anti *tut*), cakap bukan main..Islam atu Islam ani.Islam ada ajarkah tu hina Sultan?"Cikgu" kamu nada ajarkah?Nada hadis and al-Quran?Ee..tampar tia kali eh!Pasal orang2 macam kamu ani tah huru-hara negara olehnya.Baik tah skulah di Brunei belajar MIB.Belajar hormat ngan orang dan orang2 yang tertentu.
One more thing jua, sudah kerajaan bagi kebebasan bersuara atu jangantah kan naik kepala.Nya peribahasa Melayu(memang nda jauh ni quoting ani..sikit2 quoting wahahaha) di beri betis mahukan paha and jangan jua menyalahgunakan "kebebasan" bersuara atu. Coz this is already too much!And terlalu maha bebas bersuara already.Karang sudah kana tangkap polis diucap tah inda adil lah, atu lah, anilah..Mulalah start bringing up all those acts on human rights.Semua tah NGOs ada kan ambil point tah jua.Timbul tia pasal politik bla bla bla bla..Dah tu karang ramai2 tah kan buat demo free walaupun orang inda minta and inda teringin kan meliat.Sudah ada freedom of speech atu jangan tah labih2, terlajak kuah dari sudu.
Yang sudah tu sudahlah..I suggest you to support the message of one-ness starting from today.To the authorities, asked this guy to shut down his blog permanently.If possible ISA this kid lagi baik baru tau tinggi kah randah langit atu(emosi udah huhu..).Kepada "cikgu" yang mengajar ajaran sesat lagi menyesat dan menyesakkan atu, it is time for you to step down.Berehat tah..Diri atu tua sudah.Makin betambah saja dosa atu(eh awu ah..dorang memang konfom masuk syurga jua wahahaha..).Ooops!Terlebih sudah bah ini*Sabah dialect* hehehe...Sorry mummy~
(Conversation between me and my dad)
Dad:Lai, ada alai dangar berita pasal blog yang menghina Sultan Johor?
Me:*blur* apa?menghina?nada eh..ntah ah alai alum buka blog lagi
Dad:Yatah tadi ada dalam berita pasal blog bla bla bla bla ani
Me:Ooohh...*hurriedly heading back to my room and switch on my laptop*
Less than 7 minutes later...
Me:Awu yah..ada..ayah mau baca?
Dad:I'll read it later.
My Comment
When i was reading that blog,i tell you i was also meruap.Why?Coz our country is a sultanate.Seriously, my hand is so damn itchy to write a comment on that issue.This the main reason why i bring this matter up but sadly i remember what my mom told me when i told her about me creating my own blog."Lai, blogging atu inda salah...Tapi promise me one thing, jangan sekali-kali involve dalam politik..Apa2 jua politik!".(ironically everytime she gets the chance meeting YB she always said "Tolong rakyat YB bila rakyat bla bla bla bla bla and bla..).
A simple yet strict warning.Aish!Berat sungguh bahu memikul huhu...But heck yeah i know my limit.Im an outsider.I have no rights at all to get myself involved.
My piece of advice to whom it may concern, kalau sudah diri kurang ajar lagi biadap apatah lagi orang luar and macam mana tah orang luar kan hormat. Quoting from Dr M,"Timbul rasa tak kesian saye" huhu..Memang nada study sivik or social studies ni dulu masanya kanak-kanak.Ntah2 memang inda pernah skulah huhu..Cian~Yatah ajaran "skulah"nya ni.Yang aku heran(yang sebenarnya inda heran lah coz aku memang tau dari awal dorang ani *tut* maklumlah anti *tut*), cakap bukan main..Islam atu Islam ani.Islam ada ajarkah tu hina Sultan?"Cikgu" kamu nada ajarkah?Nada hadis and al-Quran?Ee..tampar tia kali eh!Pasal orang2 macam kamu ani tah huru-hara negara olehnya.Baik tah skulah di Brunei belajar MIB.Belajar hormat ngan orang dan orang2 yang tertentu.
One more thing jua, sudah kerajaan bagi kebebasan bersuara atu jangantah kan naik kepala.Nya peribahasa Melayu(memang nda jauh ni quoting ani..sikit2 quoting wahahaha) di beri betis mahukan paha and jangan jua menyalahgunakan "kebebasan" bersuara atu. Coz this is already too much!And terlalu maha bebas bersuara already.Karang sudah kana tangkap polis diucap tah inda adil lah, atu lah, anilah..Mulalah start bringing up all those acts on human rights.Semua tah NGOs ada kan ambil point tah jua.Timbul tia pasal politik bla bla bla bla..Dah tu karang ramai2 tah kan buat demo free walaupun orang inda minta and inda teringin kan meliat.Sudah ada freedom of speech atu jangan tah labih2, terlajak kuah dari sudu.
Yang sudah tu sudahlah..I suggest you to support the message of one-ness starting from today.To the authorities, asked this guy to shut down his blog permanently.If possible ISA this kid lagi baik baru tau tinggi kah randah langit atu(emosi udah huhu..).Kepada "cikgu" yang mengajar ajaran sesat lagi menyesat dan menyesakkan atu, it is time for you to step down.Berehat tah..Diri atu tua sudah.Makin betambah saja dosa atu(eh awu ah..dorang memang konfom masuk syurga jua wahahaha..).Ooops!Terlebih sudah bah ini*Sabah dialect* hehehe...Sorry mummy~
Petua Mendapat Jodoh dari Dato Dr Haji Mohd Fadzilah Kamsah
1. Semua orang ada jodoh atau pasangan yang menanti dan biasanya ia berada tidak jauh dari anda. Jarang orang bertemu dengan jodoh yang berada jauh darinya.
2. Jodoh itu ketentuan Allah dan kita wajib berusaha. Doa, usaha yang betul dan bersungguh-sungguh disertai dengan tawakkal, insyallah akan menemukan anda dengan pasangan anda.
3. Ramai orang masih belum bertemu jodoh kerana mudah patah semangat. Teruskan usaha sehingga anda bertemu jodoh.
4. Seimbangkan hidup anda dengan sempurna agar diri anda jadi seperti "magnet" yang menarik bakal pasangan anda kepada anda.
5. Daya tarikan yang sebenar berpusat di hati yang murni. Berusahalah untuk mencuci hati anda daripada semua perasaan yang negatif terhadap semua orang di dunia ini.
6.. Agar mudah orang sayang, cuci hati dengan jaga ibadah, solat taubat, beristighfar, baca Al-Quran, maafkan orang lain, meminta maaf, bersedekah dan berfikiran positif.
7. Sayangi semua orang di sekitar anda dan anda akan menarik sayang terhadap anda. Jika anda membenci orang, ditakuti bakal pasangan anda akan membenci anda.
8. Orang yang sedang mencari pasangan harus sentiasa bersedia untuk bertemu dengan pasangannya pada bila-bila masa. Justeru, kita perlu sentiasa dalam keadaan yang paling menarik setiap masa. Tanggapan pertama adalah yang terpenting.
9. Untuk lelaki, tarikan pertama ialah pakaiannya. Untuk perempuan, wajah dan bentuk badan menjadi tarikan pertama. Sediakan diri untuk menawan bakal pasangan anda.
10. Buka hati dan minda anda untuk menerima cinta. Cinta boleh berputik pada bila-bila masa. Cinta mudah datang kepada mereka yang sentiasa bersedia untuk menerima cinta.
11. Cinta datang melalui mata lalu turun ke hati. Justeru, perhebatkan hubungan mata secara memandang bakal pasangan dengan penuh kasih sayang.
12. Kita boleh berkomunikasi melalui fikiran. Hantarlah kasih sayang dan hasrat murni anda terhadap pasangan dengan gelombang fikiran ini secara berterusan hingga berjaya.
13. Ramai yang terlepas peluang dan patah hati sebab lewat menyatakan hasrat kepada bakal pasangan. Perkara yang baik disegerakan (iaitu menyatakan perasaan anda kepada bakal pasangan).
14. Tidak salah untuk orang perempuan memulakan usaha untuk berkenalan. Orang lelaki akan sentiasa merasakan mereka yang memulakan perkenalan walaupun sebenarnya orang perempuan yang mulakan.
15. Berkomunikasi dengan mesra dan bersemangat menggunakan lidah, mata, hati dan bahasa badan. Elakkan bercakap sambil lewa atau kurang sopan terhadap bakal pasangan.
16. Berbual dengan pasangan mengenai apa yang dia suka. Beri tumpuan kepada minat dan perasaannya. Elakkan sibuk memberi tumpuan kepada diri sendiri.
17. Layan bakal pasangan dengan mesra seperti kawan lama walaupun baru berkenalan. Bentuk suasana keintiman dengan segera agar bakal pasangan rasa selesa.
18. Makin mudah kita menceritakan hal peribadi yang munasabah kepada bakal pasangan, semakin mudah dia menceritakan hal dirinya kepada kita.
19. Berdoa dan latih diri agar kita pandai mendampingi orang lain dan seronok untuk didampingi oleh orang lain. Buang perangai yang menyebabkan orang benci kepada kita.
20. Beri sayang untuk mendapat sayang. Orang yang masih ada perasaan benci terhadap sebarang orang boleh menyebabkan bakal pasangan benci atau tidak tertarik kepada kita. Justeru buang semua benci.
21. Untuk wanita, jangan jual mahal terhadap bakal pasangan. Tetapi, nyatakan dengan hikmah kepadanya yang anda amat sukar untuk berkenalan dengan lelaki lain.
22.. Kebanyakan lelaki mudah tertarik kepada perempuan yang simple, tidak materialistik, mudah berterima kasih dan redha dengan setiap pemberian lelaki tersebut.
23. Orang perempuan mudah tertarik kepada lelaki yang memberi perhatian, penghargaan dan penghormatan kepada mereka. Justeru, orang lelaki janganlah terlalu jimat atau kedekut.
24. Orang lelaki perlu belajar mengenal kerenah orang perempuan. perasaan, pemikiran, kehendak, keperluan, kesukaan dan kebenciannya.
25. Elakkan memberi tumpuan kepada kelemahan dan kesilapan kecil yang ada pada bakal pasangan. Jangan sesekali mengutuk atau memalukan bakal pasangan.
26. Senyuman ikhlas, wajah yang menawan dan bahasa badan yang penuh kemesraan akan menambat lelaki terhadap wanita.
27. Orang mudah tertawan kepada bakal pasangan yang ada persamaan dan ada perbezaan sifat, tindakan dan minat. Terlalu banyak persamaan membosankan. Banyak sangat perbezaan menyesakkan.
28. Orang mudah tertarik kepada bakal pasangan yang ada sikap dan sifat yang saling mengimbangi dan melengkapkan sikap dan sifatnya.
29. Walaupun belum kenal rapat dengan bakal pasangan, nyatakan yang anda sering merasa atau berfikir seperti yang dia rasa atau fikir. Keserasian adalah tarikan.
30. Perempuan membentuk hubungan dengan berbual dan bercakap. Lelaki bentuk hubungan dengan melakukan sesuatu kegiatan secara bersama.
31. Orang mudah tertawan kepada bakal pasangan yang mempunyai persamaan daripada berbagai segi seperti kefahaman politik, aktiviti keagamaan, sikap terhadap harta, wang dan hobi.
32. Dua orang yang amat banyak perbezaan boleh serasi antara satu sama lain jika mempunyai satu atau dua persamaan yang mendalam seperti suka kepada kucing, suka melancong atau suka ramai anak.
33. Tindakan yang serentak akan menarik bakal pasangan terhadap anda. Contohnya, serentak berpaling, serentak angkat gelas, serentak berdiri, serentak nak ke tandas..
34. Tawan hati bakal pasangan dengan pamerkan emosi yang sama terhadap sesuatu kejadian atau peristiwa – sama-sama gembira, sedih, terperanjat, benci, simpati dan sebagainya.
35. Dua insan mudah serasi jika mempunyai pentafsiran yang sama mengenai hubungan – tahap keakraban, kebebasan, kebergantungan, pemberian, pengorbanan dan sebagainya.
36. Kenalpasti ciri-ciri yang disukai oleh bakal pasangan anda. Bentuk ciri-ciri yang disukai oleh bakal pasangan anda. Bentuk ciri-ciri ini dalam diri anda dan pamerkan kepadanya yang anda mempunyai ciri-ciri tersebut.
37. Semua orang mencari cinta sejati tanpa syarat.. Bakal pasangan anda akan tertarik kepada anda jika anda mengasihinya bukan kerana wajah, harta, keturunan atau glamornya.
38. Bakal pasangan akan tertawan kepada anda jika anda dapat bantu mengukuhkan imej dirinya, rangsang semangatnya dan pupuk keyakinan dirinya.
39. Keikhlasan amat penting dalam memuji atau memotivasi bakal pasangan. Jika kita didapati bohong, dia akan terus menjauhkan diri daripada kita.
40. Pujian yang berhikmah dan ikhlas bertindak sebagai magnet yang menarik anda kepada bakal pasangan. Pujian daripada kawan baru lebih bermakna dan berkesan berbanding pujian daripada kawan lama.
41. Ulang sebut perkataan, ayat atau slogan yang digemari bakal pasangan anda. Ini menyebabkan dia rasa istimewa dan dihargai dan akan tertawan kepada anda.
42. Kenalpasti keistimewaan bakal pasangan anda yang orang lain tidak nampak. Sampaikan kehebatan ini dengan bersemangat dan dia akan mudah tertawan kepada anda.
43. Untuk bakal pasangan yang popular dan sering dipuji , cari pujian yang original untuk menambat hatinya. Untuk orang yang tidak popular, sebarang pujian amat dialukan dan dihargai.
44. Beri penghargaan serta merta kepada setiap pencapaian atau kejayaan bakal pasangan. Ini membelai dan melembutkan hatinya terhadap anda.
45. Jika bakal pasangan memuji anda, pamerkan keseronokan anda dengan senyuman dan ucapan terima kasih dan bersyukur. Dia akan rasa dihargai.
46. Cari keunikan, kelucuan atau 'kegilaan' bakal pasangan anda. Nyatakan yang anda suka kepadanya sebab keunikan tersebut. Ini buat dia rasa istimewa.
47. Ramai pasangan sengsara bila isteri terlalu cantik atau suami terlalu handsome. Justeru, cari bakal pasangan yang setara dan sepadan dengan kita.
48. Orang yang merasa dirinya hodoh sukar untuk mendapat pasangan. Carilah kecantikan yang ada pada anda dan bentuk keyakinan diri. Hati yang suci dan keyakinan yang tinggi menyerlahkan kecantikan anda.
49. Wanita mudah tertawan kepada lelaki yang gentleman – bersopan santun, suka membantu, menghormati wanita, berani dan yakin diri.
50. Untuk jadi lebih menawan, berterusan belajar, perbaiki perangai dan peribadi, baiki kemahiran komunikasi, murnikan hati, pemaaf dan sentiasa bersangka baik.
51. Lelaki harus mempamerkan sifat kelelakiannya di samping memasukkan sifat perempuan dalam dirinya seperti lebih prihatin, memahami emosi , timbang rasa, dan gunakan gerak batin.
52. Perempuan harus mempamerkan sifat kewanitaan disamping menghayati sifat lelaki seperti minat dalam politik, sukan, memancing, dan aktiviti macho yang lain. Bertindak bijak tapi, jangan terlalu bijak.
53. Untuk menambat hati wanita, kerap bertanya tentang perasaannya, aktiviti yang dijalankannya, kegemarannya, kebenciannya atau sebarang perkara yang berkaitan dengan emosi.
54. Sebelum benar-benar rapat, orang perempuan harus elakkan diri dari bertanya bakal pasangan mengenai perasaannya mengenai sesuatu perkara, peristiwa atau situasi.
55. Orang lelaki amat pantang bila bakal pasangan menempelak atau menunjukkan kesilapan atau kebodohan lelaki tersebut. Ini cara terbaik memutuskan hubungan.
56. Orang perempuan mudah tertawan kepada lelaki yang boleh mengaku salah, meminta maaf, meminta bantuan, bertolak ansur, pandai mendengar, bersabar dan lemah lembut terhadap wanita.
57. Bila bercakap dengan lelaki, orang perempuan harus fokus kepada fakta dan sampaikan secara ringkas. Penjelasan yang berjela-jela dan memasukkan unsur perasaan akan membunuh minat lelaki terhadapnya.
58. Jika orang perempuan marah, pujuklah dengan kasih sayang. Tanya kenapa dia marah, dengari dengan teliti dan jangan komen atau cuba beri nasihat. Orang perempuan mudah sayang pada lelaki yang pandai mendengar dan sensitif kepada perasaannya.
59. Jika lelaki marah, jangan sibuk nak tanya kenapa dia marah. Pamerkan kasih sayang dan bentuk suasana yang tenang. Doakan dia dan beri masa untuk dia merawat dirinya sendiri.
60. Fahami bahawa orang lelaki bercakap secara terus terang, ringkas dan objektif. Orang perempuan sering bercakap secara berlapik, terperinci dan banyak yang tersirat.
I Say:No.39, 45 and 58 are so damn true..I agree with no.18, 23 and 24...For no.41, words like sayang, honey etc...I gotta say i have to agree with no.57 as well cause he always complained about me not listening to him huhu..And for no.21 and 55..LMFAO!
2. Jodoh itu ketentuan Allah dan kita wajib berusaha. Doa, usaha yang betul dan bersungguh-sungguh disertai dengan tawakkal, insyallah akan menemukan anda dengan pasangan anda.
3. Ramai orang masih belum bertemu jodoh kerana mudah patah semangat. Teruskan usaha sehingga anda bertemu jodoh.
4. Seimbangkan hidup anda dengan sempurna agar diri anda jadi seperti "magnet" yang menarik bakal pasangan anda kepada anda.
5. Daya tarikan yang sebenar berpusat di hati yang murni. Berusahalah untuk mencuci hati anda daripada semua perasaan yang negatif terhadap semua orang di dunia ini.
6.. Agar mudah orang sayang, cuci hati dengan jaga ibadah, solat taubat, beristighfar, baca Al-Quran, maafkan orang lain, meminta maaf, bersedekah dan berfikiran positif.
7. Sayangi semua orang di sekitar anda dan anda akan menarik sayang terhadap anda. Jika anda membenci orang, ditakuti bakal pasangan anda akan membenci anda.
8. Orang yang sedang mencari pasangan harus sentiasa bersedia untuk bertemu dengan pasangannya pada bila-bila masa. Justeru, kita perlu sentiasa dalam keadaan yang paling menarik setiap masa. Tanggapan pertama adalah yang terpenting.
9. Untuk lelaki, tarikan pertama ialah pakaiannya. Untuk perempuan, wajah dan bentuk badan menjadi tarikan pertama. Sediakan diri untuk menawan bakal pasangan anda.
10. Buka hati dan minda anda untuk menerima cinta. Cinta boleh berputik pada bila-bila masa. Cinta mudah datang kepada mereka yang sentiasa bersedia untuk menerima cinta.
11. Cinta datang melalui mata lalu turun ke hati. Justeru, perhebatkan hubungan mata secara memandang bakal pasangan dengan penuh kasih sayang.
12. Kita boleh berkomunikasi melalui fikiran. Hantarlah kasih sayang dan hasrat murni anda terhadap pasangan dengan gelombang fikiran ini secara berterusan hingga berjaya.
13. Ramai yang terlepas peluang dan patah hati sebab lewat menyatakan hasrat kepada bakal pasangan. Perkara yang baik disegerakan (iaitu menyatakan perasaan anda kepada bakal pasangan).
14. Tidak salah untuk orang perempuan memulakan usaha untuk berkenalan. Orang lelaki akan sentiasa merasakan mereka yang memulakan perkenalan walaupun sebenarnya orang perempuan yang mulakan.
15. Berkomunikasi dengan mesra dan bersemangat menggunakan lidah, mata, hati dan bahasa badan. Elakkan bercakap sambil lewa atau kurang sopan terhadap bakal pasangan.
16. Berbual dengan pasangan mengenai apa yang dia suka. Beri tumpuan kepada minat dan perasaannya. Elakkan sibuk memberi tumpuan kepada diri sendiri.
17. Layan bakal pasangan dengan mesra seperti kawan lama walaupun baru berkenalan. Bentuk suasana keintiman dengan segera agar bakal pasangan rasa selesa.
18. Makin mudah kita menceritakan hal peribadi yang munasabah kepada bakal pasangan, semakin mudah dia menceritakan hal dirinya kepada kita.
19. Berdoa dan latih diri agar kita pandai mendampingi orang lain dan seronok untuk didampingi oleh orang lain. Buang perangai yang menyebabkan orang benci kepada kita.
20. Beri sayang untuk mendapat sayang. Orang yang masih ada perasaan benci terhadap sebarang orang boleh menyebabkan bakal pasangan benci atau tidak tertarik kepada kita. Justeru buang semua benci.
21. Untuk wanita, jangan jual mahal terhadap bakal pasangan. Tetapi, nyatakan dengan hikmah kepadanya yang anda amat sukar untuk berkenalan dengan lelaki lain.
22.. Kebanyakan lelaki mudah tertarik kepada perempuan yang simple, tidak materialistik, mudah berterima kasih dan redha dengan setiap pemberian lelaki tersebut.
23. Orang perempuan mudah tertarik kepada lelaki yang memberi perhatian, penghargaan dan penghormatan kepada mereka. Justeru, orang lelaki janganlah terlalu jimat atau kedekut.
24. Orang lelaki perlu belajar mengenal kerenah orang perempuan. perasaan, pemikiran, kehendak, keperluan, kesukaan dan kebenciannya.
25. Elakkan memberi tumpuan kepada kelemahan dan kesilapan kecil yang ada pada bakal pasangan. Jangan sesekali mengutuk atau memalukan bakal pasangan.
26. Senyuman ikhlas, wajah yang menawan dan bahasa badan yang penuh kemesraan akan menambat lelaki terhadap wanita.
27. Orang mudah tertawan kepada bakal pasangan yang ada persamaan dan ada perbezaan sifat, tindakan dan minat. Terlalu banyak persamaan membosankan. Banyak sangat perbezaan menyesakkan.
28. Orang mudah tertarik kepada bakal pasangan yang ada sikap dan sifat yang saling mengimbangi dan melengkapkan sikap dan sifatnya.
29. Walaupun belum kenal rapat dengan bakal pasangan, nyatakan yang anda sering merasa atau berfikir seperti yang dia rasa atau fikir. Keserasian adalah tarikan.
30. Perempuan membentuk hubungan dengan berbual dan bercakap. Lelaki bentuk hubungan dengan melakukan sesuatu kegiatan secara bersama.
31. Orang mudah tertawan kepada bakal pasangan yang mempunyai persamaan daripada berbagai segi seperti kefahaman politik, aktiviti keagamaan, sikap terhadap harta, wang dan hobi.
32. Dua orang yang amat banyak perbezaan boleh serasi antara satu sama lain jika mempunyai satu atau dua persamaan yang mendalam seperti suka kepada kucing, suka melancong atau suka ramai anak.
33. Tindakan yang serentak akan menarik bakal pasangan terhadap anda. Contohnya, serentak berpaling, serentak angkat gelas, serentak berdiri, serentak nak ke tandas..
34. Tawan hati bakal pasangan dengan pamerkan emosi yang sama terhadap sesuatu kejadian atau peristiwa – sama-sama gembira, sedih, terperanjat, benci, simpati dan sebagainya.
35. Dua insan mudah serasi jika mempunyai pentafsiran yang sama mengenai hubungan – tahap keakraban, kebebasan, kebergantungan, pemberian, pengorbanan dan sebagainya.
36. Kenalpasti ciri-ciri yang disukai oleh bakal pasangan anda. Bentuk ciri-ciri yang disukai oleh bakal pasangan anda. Bentuk ciri-ciri ini dalam diri anda dan pamerkan kepadanya yang anda mempunyai ciri-ciri tersebut.
37. Semua orang mencari cinta sejati tanpa syarat.. Bakal pasangan anda akan tertarik kepada anda jika anda mengasihinya bukan kerana wajah, harta, keturunan atau glamornya.
38. Bakal pasangan akan tertawan kepada anda jika anda dapat bantu mengukuhkan imej dirinya, rangsang semangatnya dan pupuk keyakinan dirinya.
39. Keikhlasan amat penting dalam memuji atau memotivasi bakal pasangan. Jika kita didapati bohong, dia akan terus menjauhkan diri daripada kita.
40. Pujian yang berhikmah dan ikhlas bertindak sebagai magnet yang menarik anda kepada bakal pasangan. Pujian daripada kawan baru lebih bermakna dan berkesan berbanding pujian daripada kawan lama.
41. Ulang sebut perkataan, ayat atau slogan yang digemari bakal pasangan anda. Ini menyebabkan dia rasa istimewa dan dihargai dan akan tertawan kepada anda.
42. Kenalpasti keistimewaan bakal pasangan anda yang orang lain tidak nampak. Sampaikan kehebatan ini dengan bersemangat dan dia akan mudah tertawan kepada anda.
43. Untuk bakal pasangan yang popular dan sering dipuji , cari pujian yang original untuk menambat hatinya. Untuk orang yang tidak popular, sebarang pujian amat dialukan dan dihargai.
44. Beri penghargaan serta merta kepada setiap pencapaian atau kejayaan bakal pasangan. Ini membelai dan melembutkan hatinya terhadap anda.
45. Jika bakal pasangan memuji anda, pamerkan keseronokan anda dengan senyuman dan ucapan terima kasih dan bersyukur. Dia akan rasa dihargai.
46. Cari keunikan, kelucuan atau 'kegilaan' bakal pasangan anda. Nyatakan yang anda suka kepadanya sebab keunikan tersebut. Ini buat dia rasa istimewa.
47. Ramai pasangan sengsara bila isteri terlalu cantik atau suami terlalu handsome. Justeru, cari bakal pasangan yang setara dan sepadan dengan kita.
48. Orang yang merasa dirinya hodoh sukar untuk mendapat pasangan. Carilah kecantikan yang ada pada anda dan bentuk keyakinan diri. Hati yang suci dan keyakinan yang tinggi menyerlahkan kecantikan anda.
49. Wanita mudah tertawan kepada lelaki yang gentleman – bersopan santun, suka membantu, menghormati wanita, berani dan yakin diri.
50. Untuk jadi lebih menawan, berterusan belajar, perbaiki perangai dan peribadi, baiki kemahiran komunikasi, murnikan hati, pemaaf dan sentiasa bersangka baik.
51. Lelaki harus mempamerkan sifat kelelakiannya di samping memasukkan sifat perempuan dalam dirinya seperti lebih prihatin, memahami emosi , timbang rasa, dan gunakan gerak batin.
52. Perempuan harus mempamerkan sifat kewanitaan disamping menghayati sifat lelaki seperti minat dalam politik, sukan, memancing, dan aktiviti macho yang lain. Bertindak bijak tapi, jangan terlalu bijak.
53. Untuk menambat hati wanita, kerap bertanya tentang perasaannya, aktiviti yang dijalankannya, kegemarannya, kebenciannya atau sebarang perkara yang berkaitan dengan emosi.
54. Sebelum benar-benar rapat, orang perempuan harus elakkan diri dari bertanya bakal pasangan mengenai perasaannya mengenai sesuatu perkara, peristiwa atau situasi.
55. Orang lelaki amat pantang bila bakal pasangan menempelak atau menunjukkan kesilapan atau kebodohan lelaki tersebut. Ini cara terbaik memutuskan hubungan.
56. Orang perempuan mudah tertawan kepada lelaki yang boleh mengaku salah, meminta maaf, meminta bantuan, bertolak ansur, pandai mendengar, bersabar dan lemah lembut terhadap wanita.
57. Bila bercakap dengan lelaki, orang perempuan harus fokus kepada fakta dan sampaikan secara ringkas. Penjelasan yang berjela-jela dan memasukkan unsur perasaan akan membunuh minat lelaki terhadapnya.
58. Jika orang perempuan marah, pujuklah dengan kasih sayang. Tanya kenapa dia marah, dengari dengan teliti dan jangan komen atau cuba beri nasihat. Orang perempuan mudah sayang pada lelaki yang pandai mendengar dan sensitif kepada perasaannya.
59. Jika lelaki marah, jangan sibuk nak tanya kenapa dia marah. Pamerkan kasih sayang dan bentuk suasana yang tenang. Doakan dia dan beri masa untuk dia merawat dirinya sendiri.
60. Fahami bahawa orang lelaki bercakap secara terus terang, ringkas dan objektif. Orang perempuan sering bercakap secara berlapik, terperinci dan banyak yang tersirat.
"A Great Marriage is Not When the Perfect Couple Comes Together.It is When the Imperfect Couple Learns to Enjoy Their Differences."
I Say:No.39, 45 and 58 are so damn true..I agree with no.18, 23 and 24...For no.41, words like sayang, honey etc...I gotta say i have to agree with no.57 as well cause he always complained about me not listening to him huhu..And for no.21 and 55..LMFAO!
Sunday, 24 January 2010
One Way One Fate One Hero
Danger lies within the walls of the first place Harry Potter called home. Now with Dumbledore gone, the wizarding world being under the reign of Lord Voldemort, and his prime Death Eater, Severus Snape, being Hogwarts headmaster, everything seems to have fallen. But hope still dwells within their hearts, since Harry Potter is who the Prophecy speaks of. Here, Harry, Ron and Hermione get out of Hogwarts and try to find missing Horcuxes for they hold the key into finally defeating Lord Voldemort. But there's just one thing: He doesn't know what each Horcrux looks like, where they are or how would he even destroy it. Meanwhile, he is told that Dumbledore left them a will: A Deluminator for Ron, An old book of children's tales for Hermione, and the Golden Snitch for Harry. However, none of these made any sense of how it was to help them find Horcruxes. But with the book, Hermione finds a story of three brothers who had three powerful objects given to them by Death: An unbeatable and the most powerful wand: the Wand of destiny; A stone that brings people who have entered Death's grasp back to life: The Resurrection Stone; and a cloak whose cloth is as supple as water and as light as air, Death's Cloak of Invisibility. With the help of Xenophilius Lovegood, Luna Lovegood's father, they learn that these are, what some people call, the "Deathly Hallows" and any beholder would be "The master of death". Harry thinks if it is really this way it's gonna be: Hallows versus Horcruxes? Harry falls curious and obsessed with the Deathly Hallows and yearns into finding them; he believes it was another alternative into defeating Voldemort. During his journey, he sights glimpses into Voldemort's mind, making him see everything through Voldemort's eyes. Despite the burning sensation he feels while invading Voldemort's mind, he finds help from it and learns that Voldemort is also on a quest. A quest to find one thing that he only heard of from a fairy tale, and assumed for it to exist: The very own Wand of Destiny, the unbeatable wand. More and more tragic deaths come, and it is up to him to make each of theirs a noble rest. He meets near-death moments and narrowly escapes them, but in the end, "neither could live, while the other survives".
p/s:i wanted to re-read his book again and i can't hardly wait to watch this film at the cinema.i bet it's gonna be awesome.and oh yeah, fyi, this film is only the first half finale from the book "Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollow".This film will be at the cinema this year on 19 November and the release date for the last finale(Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollow:Part 2) is on 15 July 2011.
p/s:i wanted to re-read his book again and i can't hardly wait to watch this film at the cinema.i bet it's gonna be awesome.and oh yeah, fyi, this film is only the first half finale from the book "Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollow".This film will be at the cinema this year on 19 November and the release date for the last finale(Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollow:Part 2) is on 15 July 2011.
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2PM -- Niga Mibda(I Hate You)
I have officially gone mad..Mad over the 2PM.I'm mad about them!I so love their song entitle "I Hate You"So when you watch this video try to find the possible reasons why i like them as many as you can hehe..Can't get enough of them?Click here and here for their recent performance as they performed 'Tired of Waiting' without Jaeboem for the first time,and it's a special edition too.As for now,2PM are officially consist of 6 members.Enjoy watching!
p/s: for the first link video, i love their facial 'sombong' and 'tired' (tired of waiting for that girl)expression and they way they stomp their feet the most...they look incredibly hot and sexy..especially at 1:18...hot!hot!grrr~me like*wink*..hehehe..and for the second link video, i love their prop:)
p/s: for the first link video, i love their facial 'sombong' and 'tired' (tired of waiting for that girl)expression and they way they stomp their feet the most...they look incredibly hot and sexy..especially at 1:18...hot!hot!grrr~me like*wink*..hehehe..and for the second link video, i love their prop:)
Saturday, 23 January 2010
Funny Signs
For strong teeth
Do not use the pillow
Err..I think not
Lucky you 'cause you don't have to pay the fine
Wanted
No hanky panky
'Falling people' hehe...
Very creative advertisement
No page found
Good one!Hahaha...
Beware of what?Definitely not dogs
Hygiene is important
LOL
Im already confused huhu
Hehehe...
*scratching my head*
Hehehe...
School eh?
Warning
I love this sign the most hehehe
Errr..
*Gulp*
Way beyond my expectation
Smoker are you?
???
And i wonder how..Hmmm..
Do's and Don'ts
Have you ever been involved in a long-distance relationship?I, myself, think that it is extremely hard and difficult to sustain your relationship, especially for LDR(long distance relationship).Negative thoughts always lingers in your head.For the LDR couples, mainly at the early stage of the relationship like in the early 6-7 months or are very challenging due to the occurrence of obstacles from oneself(jealousy,hesitation and all that).But after that, you'll begin to understand your partner more and more each day.Hesitation, distrust and apprehensive are your closest worst enemy.There are several do's and don'ts in LDR that every couple should do and/or don't do.Therefore, i give you the do's and dont's prescriptions for your healthy relationship.Hopefully it helps to romance and lighten your relationship.We are all deserve to be happy.
Do’s
1) Establish an effective communication channel
The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but apart from the telephone services, there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.
2) Plan to meet each other
There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your LDR.
3) Build hobby that you can both share
By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.
4) Surprise your partner
Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.
5) Capture and share that interesting moment
Throughout the period of your LDR, you can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.
Don’ts
1) Settle for a temporary replacement
One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.
2) Take the relationship lightly
The absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.
3) Wait and see attitude
Most of the failures in distance relationship that we observed are contributed by the wait and see attitude of the couples themselves. This was caused by the insecurity of the couple as they do not think that the LDR will work but at the same time they do not want to put a stop to the relationship. Let me tell you this, if you plan to have this kind of attitude, refrain from walking into one at the first place because both you and your partner will suffer in the relationship. In a LDR, both partners must be committed and proactive in bringing the relationship to a higher level.
4) Suspicion
There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your partner is apt to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under your nose. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your LDR.
5) Succumb to negative comment on LDR
Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that LDR do not work. The negative impression you have in LDR will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work. I knew it because I had successfully conquered my own distance relationship due to the reason that I am not influence by any of the bad comments I received.
Why learning English is so difficult?
Most students found it difficult to learn and study English, although it is the second most spoken language after the mother-tongue language that is Bahasa Melayu.But to be frank, we are now living in the 21st century and i strongly believe that most parents have become highly aware of the importance of mastering English language among their kids.After all most of the subjects in the curriculum are English medium especially now after the establishment of SPN 21 in the curriculum imposed by the Ministry of Education,Negara Brunei Darussalam.This year there is a new subject being introduced and implemented into the primary school that is Social Studies, starting from Year 4 - 6.So starting from this year onwards the PSR student will be sitting 6 subjects altogether in their PSR exam.
In my view, English is very important. To some people whom i would like to call conventionalists,they think that we must preserve our mother tongue(Malay language) because it is our sovereignty.So lame-o.Again to me personally, it is essential for every human being to learn and study not only English but also other languages lika French, Spanish, Mandarin, Korean, Japanese, Urdu and so forth.This is to at least overcome the language barrier.Especially when we travel, we have trouble in communicating with the locals.For instance, in Thailand they don't really speak foreign languages due to the reason i have stated earlier.So it was quite hard to communicate with them.The same goes with the taxi driver.This is based on my real experience.This taxi driver really didn't know how to speak English and he struggled very hard to explain what he wanted to tell us.So all the way we just remained quiet.And the funny part was, we spoke to him in Malay and he spoke to us in Thai.So it's like 'ayam itik' hahaha..I was laughing so hard,enjoying myself i gotta say,all the way back to our hotel.God that guy was terribly funny.Aah..good times..
Back to the former subject,as an educator i always ask my students why studying English is difficult.They gave me different number of reasons but among all, the most similar reason they come up with was/is because of the tenses(present continous tense, past perfect tenst etc) and also vocabulary.I have this student who took private Cambridge English O Level Exam for 8 times.He always got D in his exam.But he never gave up easily.Alas, the ninth time he passed and he got credit.In the end, everything was paid off.
I always reckon my students to bring their dictionary everytime they come into my class(normally not only during English class but also other classes like Geography, History, Science and even Mathematics).
As a matter of fact,of course there are more several reasons why students found it difficult to study English.Below are some other obstacles encountered by students when studying English as a second language.
Phrasal Verbs
These would be perfectly clear to native speakers, but to a class of beginner and lower intermediate students these combinations would be confusing and illogical.
- Come forward with
- Come up with
- Come down with
- Go through with
- Drop in on
- Drop out of
- Check in on
- Check up on
- Look up to
- Look down on
- Look in on
Tenses Used in English
To communicate adequately students in an English class would have to grasp the following basic tenses.
- Present tense (I do)
- Present continuous tense (I am doing)
- Present perfect tense (I have done)
- Present perfect continuous tense (I have been doing)
- Past tense (I did)
- Past continuous tense (I was doing)
- Past perfect tense (I had done)
- Past perfect continuous tense (I had been doing)
- Future tense (I will do)
- Future continuous tense (I will be doing)
- Future perfect tense (I will have done)
- Future perfect continuous tense (I will have been doing)
Irregular Verbs
There seems to be lots of these used in the English language, and the rules can be hard to understand for lower level students.
For example, sometimes the verb changes completely.
- Base form - sing
- Past simple - sang
- Past participle - sung
Sometimes there is a partial change.
- Base form - buy
- Past simple - bought
- Past participle - bought
And in some cases, there is no change at all.
- Base form - cut
- Past simple - cut
- Past participle - cut
Bizarre Vocabulary
How would you illustrate the difference between fat chance and slim chance? How about a wise man and a wise guy? The plural form of goose is geese, tooth becomes teeth and foot becomes feet. But, two notable exceptions are moose and sheep. They stay the same in the singular and plural forms. Try explaining this to a class of ESL students.
Pronunciation and Reading
English is not a phonetic language. Many words look exactly the same but are pronounced differently. An example is, "I have read that book," and "I like to read." In other instances it's the other way around, such as "I have read the book," and "My favourite color is red."
The syntax of English is inflexible compared to other languages. Sentences always follow a subject-verb-object structure. This isn't the case with some European languages like German or Dutch, where in some circumstances verbs come at the end of a sentence.
So,these are the fundamental problems encountered by most of the native speakers.And trust me, sometimes it feels like giving up teaching them the same things over and over and over again.Nevertheless,i secretly enjoy teaching them and sharing the ala kadar knowledge that i have.
Biggest Morons of the Year
Winner of the dumb corporation award... AT&T fired President John Walter after nine months saying he lacked intellectual leadership. He received a $26 million severance package. (Who's the dummy?)
No one ever said you had to be "smart" to be a cop... Police in Oakland, California spent two hours attempting to subdue a gunman who had barricaded himself inside his home. After firing ten tear gas canisters, officers discovered that the man was standing beside them, shouting out to give himself up.
A dedicated crook! A man walked into a Topeka, Kansas Kwik Shop and asked for all the money in the cash drawer. Apparently, the take was too small so he tied up the store clerk and worked the counter himself for three hours until police showed up and grabbed him. (Wonder if he paid himself time and 1/2 for the overtime?)
Please get my foot out of my mouth... Police in Los Angeles had good luck with a robbery suspect who just couldn't control himself during a lineup. When detectives asked each man in the lineup to repeat the words, "Give me all your money or I'll shoot", the man shouted, "That's not what I said!" (Turns out, the witness was Blonde and didn't pick him!)
Can you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth? A man spoke frantically into the phone: "My wife is pregnant, and her contractions are only two minutes apart." "Is this her first child?" the doctor asked. "No!" the man shouted, "This is her husband!"
One fry short of a Happy Meal... In Modesto CA, Steven Richard King was arrested for trying to hold up a Bank of America branch without a weapon. King used a thumb and a finger to simulate a gun. Unfortunately, he failed to keep his hand in his pocket. (Hellooooooo!)
A well thought out crime... An Illinois man, pretending to have a gun, kidnapped a motorist and forced him to drive to two different automated teller machines. The kidnapper then proceeded to withdraw money from his own bank account. (Maybe he should have pretended to have a brain!)
Talk about a bad day... Fire investigators on Maui have determined the cause of a blaze that destroyed a $1,270,000 home last month - a short in the homeowner's newly installed fire prevention alarm system. "This is even worse than last year, "said the distraught homeowner, "when someone broke in and stole my new security system..." (Might want to look into that guy from Illinois?)
The grand finale! Last summer down on Lake Isabella, located in the high desert an hour east of Bakersfield CA, some folks new to boating were having a problem. No matter how hard they tried, they couldn't get their brand new 22 foot boat going. It was very sluggish in almost every maneuver no matter how much power they applied. After about an hour of trying to make it go, they putted into a nearby marina, thinking someone there may be able to tell them what was wrong. A thorough topside check revealed everything in perfect working condition. The engine ran fine, the out-drive went up and down, and the propeller was the correct size and pitch. So one of the marina guys jumped in the water to check underneath. He came up choking on water, he was laughing so hard. Under the boat (remember this is true), still strapped securely in place... was the trailer!
What'd You Think?
No one ever said you had to be "smart" to be a cop... Police in Oakland, California spent two hours attempting to subdue a gunman who had barricaded himself inside his home. After firing ten tear gas canisters, officers discovered that the man was standing beside them, shouting out to give himself up.
A dedicated crook! A man walked into a Topeka, Kansas Kwik Shop and asked for all the money in the cash drawer. Apparently, the take was too small so he tied up the store clerk and worked the counter himself for three hours until police showed up and grabbed him. (Wonder if he paid himself time and 1/2 for the overtime?)
Please get my foot out of my mouth... Police in Los Angeles had good luck with a robbery suspect who just couldn't control himself during a lineup. When detectives asked each man in the lineup to repeat the words, "Give me all your money or I'll shoot", the man shouted, "That's not what I said!" (Turns out, the witness was Blonde and didn't pick him!)
Can you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth? A man spoke frantically into the phone: "My wife is pregnant, and her contractions are only two minutes apart." "Is this her first child?" the doctor asked. "No!" the man shouted, "This is her husband!"
One fry short of a Happy Meal... In Modesto CA, Steven Richard King was arrested for trying to hold up a Bank of America branch without a weapon. King used a thumb and a finger to simulate a gun. Unfortunately, he failed to keep his hand in his pocket. (Hellooooooo!)
A well thought out crime... An Illinois man, pretending to have a gun, kidnapped a motorist and forced him to drive to two different automated teller machines. The kidnapper then proceeded to withdraw money from his own bank account. (Maybe he should have pretended to have a brain!)
Talk about a bad day... Fire investigators on Maui have determined the cause of a blaze that destroyed a $1,270,000 home last month - a short in the homeowner's newly installed fire prevention alarm system. "This is even worse than last year, "said the distraught homeowner, "when someone broke in and stole my new security system..." (Might want to look into that guy from Illinois?)
The grand finale! Last summer down on Lake Isabella, located in the high desert an hour east of Bakersfield CA, some folks new to boating were having a problem. No matter how hard they tried, they couldn't get their brand new 22 foot boat going. It was very sluggish in almost every maneuver no matter how much power they applied. After about an hour of trying to make it go, they putted into a nearby marina, thinking someone there may be able to tell them what was wrong. A thorough topside check revealed everything in perfect working condition. The engine ran fine, the out-drive went up and down, and the propeller was the correct size and pitch. So one of the marina guys jumped in the water to check underneath. He came up choking on water, he was laughing so hard. Under the boat (remember this is true), still strapped securely in place... was the trailer!
What'd You Think?
Friday, 22 January 2010
True Love Story
Hari ini genaplah usiaku 24 tahun iaitu pada 30hb November 2003.
Tapi hatiku rasa tidak keruan, puasku berfikir kenapa agaknya. Sedangkan pada tahun-tahun sebelumnya aku tidak pernah berperasaan begini. Lagi membuatkan aku rasa kecewa ialah pada saat-saat hari gembiraku ini orang yang paling kusayangi sudah melupai tarikh ulangtahunku.
Puas sudah kumenunggu panggilan darinya. hingga membuatkan aku tertanya-tanya kenapa dia tidak mahu menelefonku. Aku bukannya mengharapkan apa -apa cuma sekadar ucapan darinya. Itupun sudah cukup memadai bagiku. Memang aku akui aku dan dia memang jarang bertemu kerana aku di K.L manakala dia pula di Pantai timur. Jarak antara K.L dan Kelantan membataskan pertemuan kami tetapi itu tidak menghalang percintaan kami. Malah ikatan kasih sayang itu semakin bertambah dan sentiasa dibajai dengan perasan dimiliki dan ingin dimiliki.
Sedang aku termanggu sendirian, tiba - tiba aku dikejutkan dengan deringan telefon. Alangkah gembiranya hatiku apabila mendengar suaranya ditelefon. Kurasakan penantianku berhasil. Jika dia berada didepanku ingin aku mendakapnya sebagai tanda terima kasihku. Tetapi suara hatiku berkata kenapa baru sekarang dia hendak menelefonku.Argh… persetankanlah dengan semua ini. Asalkan dia sudah menelefon itu sudah mencukupi. Tetapi segala apa yang kuangankan umpama kaca terhempas ke batu. Bukan ucapan ’selamat hari lahir’ yang terungkap di bibir mungilnya tetapi dia hanya menyatakan bahawa dia tidak dapat meneruskan perhubungan kami lagi. Dan dia mendoakan agar aku tabah menghadapi hari-hari yang mendatang. Ya Allah ujian apakah ni. Begitu mudah sekali dia memutuskannya. Tidakkah dia tahu yang aku benar-benar menyintainya. Hampir 4 tahun usia percintaan yang kami bina dan dia dengan mudah sekali melafazkan kata perpisahan. Sedangkan selama ini dia tahu aku bertungkus lumus berusaha mengumpulkan wang. Ini semata-mata kulakukan untuk menyuntingnya suatu hari nanti.
Puasku memujuknya agar memberitahuku apakah kesalahan yang telah kulakukan sampaikan dia sanggup berbuat demikian. Akhirnya dengan rasa sebak dan terharu dia menyatakan bahawa dia terpaksa mengikut kehendak kedua orang tua dan keluarganya. Dimana dia akan dijodohkan dengan ahli saudara terdekatnya.
Bagaikan gelap kurasakan duniaku ini. Tambah pilu hati ini lagi apabila aku mendengar suaranya yang tidak henti-henti menangis . Kalau diikutkan hati mahu sahaja aku ke Kelantan untuk menemuinya. Tetapi apakan dayaku.
Aku benar-benar bingung ketika itu dan tidak tahu kepada siapakah untuk aku meluahkan perasaan yang berserabut ini. Ingin sahaja aku curahkan segala rasa hatiku kepada kedua ibubapaku, tetapi aku tidak sampai hati kerana selama ini mereka berharap agar aku dan dia akan bersatu. Di saat-saat ini barulah aku terfikir alangkah baiknya sekiranya aku mempunyai seorang kakak. Bolehlah aku meminta pandangannya. Hanya insan yang bernama wanita jualah yang lebih mudah memahami soal hati dan yang melibatkan perasaan kerana jiwa wanita ini amat halus dan penuh perasaan sentimental.
Hari-hari yang kulalui terasa kosong, hambar dan hilang serinya. Begitu jualah yang jelas kelihatan pada raut wajahku. Selama ini aku memang diketegorikan sebagai seorang yang terkenal dengan sikap periang. Tetapi semenjak kebelakangan ini aku mula bertukar watak malah sering bermurung. Bagiku sudah tidak ada makna lagi. Semenjak peristiwa itu aku telah berazam tidak mahu melibatkan diri lagi dalam soal percintaan. Hatiku telah tertutup rapat untuk mana-mana wanita. Aku sendiri pun tidak pasti sampai bilakah ianya akan terubat. Aku juga tidak mahu orang lain menyedari akan perubahan yang berlaku ke atas diriku. Segala susah payah biarlah ku sendiri yang menanggungnya. Bak kata pujanga “Berat mata memandang berat lagi bahuku yang memikulnya.
Ku ingatkan aku boleh bertahan tapi rupanya aku masih belum kuat lagi untuk menerima ini semua. Ku buangkan segala perasaan maluku, pernah ku menangis di hadapan 2 0rang sahabatku. Mereka jua pernah mengatakan yang mereka tidak sampai hati melihat keaadan aku dan takut ianya akan menjejaskan kerjayaku. Malah mereka berdualah yang banyak memberi ku perangsang dan semangat untuk aku terus bangun dari diselimuti oleh perasaan gundah gulana sepanjang masa. Terima kasih kalian berdua “kak jujie dan Kak shiba”.
Berkat sokongan dan dorongan dari mereka aku telah membulat tekad bahawa aku akan cuba sedaya upayaku untuk memilikinya. Bak kata pepatah “alang-alang menyeluk pekasam biar sampai ke pangkal lengan”. Berbekalkan semangat inilah aku meminta kedua ibu bapaku masuk meminang si dia. Walaupun aku sedia maklum bahawa sidia bakal dijodohkan dengan orang lain. Tetapi kurasakan yang aku masih lagi mempunyai peluang. Sedangkan orang yang sudah berkahwin pun boleh bercerai. Inikan pula si dia yang baru hendak dijodohkan dengan orang lain. Bak kata orang ” the best man win”.
Pada mulanya kedua ibu bapaku enggan menurut kehendakku tetapi disebabkan aku beria-ia akhirnya mereka mengalah. Terima kasih buat emak dan ayah. Setelah mencapai kata putus. Ibu bapaku berbincang dengan kedua ibu bapa si dia mengenai hasrat hatiku. Walaupun hanya berbicara melalui telefon, akhirnya mereka bersetuju untuk menerima aku sebagai sebahagian daripada keluarganya.
Akhirnya, setelah pelbagai dugaan telah kuharungi. Aku dan keluargaku berangkat ke Kelantan menghantar rombongan meminang. Ku panjatkan syukur ke hadrat Ilahi, pada tanggal 17/3/2004 cincin pertunanganku telah selamat disarungkan dijari manisnya. Bahagianya kurasakan disaat itu. Aku berjanji dengan orang tuanya bahawa aku akan menjaga anaknya dengan baik serta akan menjadi seorang suami dan ayah yang baik kepada cucu-cucunya kelak. Insyaalah.
Aku bersyukur pada yang Esa kerana telah memakbulkan doaku selama ini. aku juga berharap agar perhubungan ini akan terus berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat. Walau sebesar mana pun gelombang yang melanda aku berjanji akan cuba untuk menempuhinya. Aku akan pastikan orang yang aku sayangi akan sentiasa berada disisi.
Kepada pembaca, jadikanlah kisahku ini sebagai satu ikhtibar. Sekiranya kita sayangkan seseorang cepatlah bertindak. Jangan tunggu sampai sesuatu perkara yang tidak diingini berlaku, barulah kita akan menyesal.
Nukilan : Insan Sepi
This story has touched my heart especially at the time when he cried in front of his two best friends.I can truly feel his pain.But in the end alhamdulilah..this guy memang kuat semangat and he was not giving up on her that easily.That's what im talking about dude!Most importantly in a relationship dua belah pihak mesti kuat.Like this story pihak lelaki memang kuat .It is indeed very difficult to sustain a relationship.I just don't understand why some people simply willing to cut the relationship off just because of the presence of someone that he/she barely knows.So stupid!To all blog readers, learn how to appreciate on what you have right now 'cause when it's gone, it's gone and can never be back.If you have a crush on this person, just tell them honestly the feelings that you have for her/him.At lest she/he knows and this will make you feel better.Trust me.Because you will fight for her/him just to win her/his heart until the very last minute.Love knows no surrender.Love is a battlefield.So fight for your love!
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