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2PM -- Niga Mibda(I Hate You)

I have officially gone mad..Mad over the 2PM.I'm mad about them!I so love their song entitle "I Hate You"So when you watch this video try to find the possible reasons why i like them as many as you can hehe..Can't get enough of them?Click here and here for their recent performance as they performed 'Tired of Waiting' without Jaeboem for the first time,and it's a special edition too.As for now,2PM are officially consist of 6 members.Enjoy watching!

p/s: for the first link video, i love their facial 'sombong' and 'tired' (tired of waiting for that girl)expression and they way they stomp their feet the most...they look incredibly hot and sexy..especially at 1:18...hot!hot!grrr~me like*wink*..hehehe..and for the second link video, i love their prop:)

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Funny Signs

For strong teeth

Do not use the pillow

Err..I think not

Lucky you 'cause you don't have to pay the fine

Wanted

No hanky panky

'Falling people' hehe...

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Good one!Hahaha...

Beware of what?Definitely not dogs

Hygiene is important

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Im already confused huhu

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*scratching my head*

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School eh?

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I love this sign the most hehehe

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*Gulp*

Way beyond my expectation

Smoker are you?

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And i wonder how..Hmmm..

Do's and Don'ts

Have you ever been involved in a long-distance relationship?I, myself, think that it is extremely hard and difficult to sustain your relationship, especially for LDR(long distance relationship).Negative thoughts always lingers in your head.For the LDR couples, mainly at the early stage of the relationship like in the early 6-7 months or are very challenging due to the occurrence of obstacles from oneself(jealousy,hesitation and all that).But after that, you'll begin to understand your partner more and more each day.Hesitation, distrust and apprehensive are your closest worst enemy.There are several do's and don'ts in LDR that every couple should do and/or don't do.Therefore, i give you the do's and dont's prescriptions for your healthy relationship.Hopefully it helps to romance and lighten your relationship.We are all deserve to be happy.

Do’s

1) Establish an effective communication channel

The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Most people will think that telephone is the most convenient mode of communication but apart from the telephone services, there are some other alternative you can use. Instant messenger, emails, VOIP phone and conventional mails can be very effective if you know how to use them. Each of the communication channels has its own advantages and disadvantages and therefore you must start to explore each of them to enhance your communication experience.

2) Plan to meet each other

There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your partner to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling in your LDR.

3) Build hobby that you can both share

By building and keeping a hobby, both of you will have something to discuss and work on throughout your distance relationship. Finding something to do online can be quite interesting judging from its speed and reach ability but never leave out conventional hobby as well because you do not need to have your partner’s physical present to share a hobby.

4) Surprise your partner

Occasionally surprise you partner with cards, gifts, letter and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your partner will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your partner will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

5) Capture and share that interesting moment

Throughout the period of your LDR, you can always capture some interesting moment of yours by exchanging photos, video clips and as well as audio recording. This will indirectly keep your partner informed on what has happen in your life despite the physical distance.

Don’ts

1) Settle for a temporary replacement

One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.

2) Take the relationship lightly

The absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.

3) Wait and see attitude

Most of the failures in distance relationship that we observed are contributed by the wait and see attitude of the couples themselves. This was caused by the insecurity of the couple as they do not think that the LDR will work but at the same time they do not want to put a stop to the relationship. Let me tell you this, if you plan to have this kind of attitude, refrain from walking into one at the first place because both you and your partner will suffer in the relationship. In a LDR, both partners must be committed and proactive in bringing the relationship to a higher level.

4) Suspicion

There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your partner at any point of your LDR. Although it is easier said than done but trust me, if your partner is apt to do something unfaithful to you, they will still do it under your nose. Therefore there is no need for you to create such unnecessary stress in your LDR.

5) Succumb to negative comment on LDR

Couples in distance relationship always make a mistake by believing that LDR do not work. The negative impression you have in LDR will eventually hunt you down and destroy your relationship if you choose to listen to the negative comment. Therefore, once you have decided to enter into a long distance relationship, you must learn to believe that your relationship will work. I knew it because I had successfully conquered my own distance relationship due to the reason that I am not influence by any of the bad comments I received.

Why learning English is so difficult?

Most students found it difficult to learn and study English, although it is the second most spoken language after the mother-tongue language that is Bahasa Melayu.But to be frank, we are now living in the 21st century and i strongly believe that most parents have become highly aware of the importance of mastering English language among their kids.After all most of the subjects in the curriculum are English medium especially now after the establishment of SPN 21 in the curriculum imposed by the Ministry of Education,Negara Brunei Darussalam.This year there is a new subject being introduced and implemented into the primary school that is Social Studies, starting from Year 4 - 6.So starting from this year onwards the PSR student will be sitting 6 subjects altogether in their PSR exam.

In my view, English is very important. To some people whom i would like to call conventionalists,they think that we must preserve our mother tongue(Malay language) because it is our sovereignty.So lame-o.Again to me personally, it is essential for every human being to learn and study not only English but also other languages lika French, Spanish, Mandarin, Korean, Japanese, Urdu and so forth.This is to at least overcome the language barrier.Especially when we travel, we have trouble in communicating with the locals.For instance, in Thailand they don't really speak foreign languages due to the reason i have stated earlier.So it was quite hard to communicate with them.The same goes with the taxi driver.This is based on my real experience.This taxi driver really didn't know how to speak English and he struggled very hard to explain what he wanted to tell us.So all the way we just remained quiet.And the funny part was, we spoke to him in Malay and he spoke to us in Thai.So it's like 'ayam itik' hahaha..I was laughing so hard,enjoying myself i gotta say,all the way back to our hotel.God that guy was terribly funny.Aah..good times..

Back to the former subject,as an educator i always ask my students why studying English is difficult.They gave me different number of reasons but among all, the most similar reason they come up with was/is because of the tenses(present continous tense, past perfect tenst etc) and also vocabulary.I have this student who took private Cambridge English O Level Exam for 8 times.He always got D in his exam.But he never gave up easily.Alas, the ninth time he passed and he got credit.In the end, everything was paid off.

I always reckon my students to bring their dictionary everytime they come into my class(normally not only during English class but also other classes like Geography, History, Science and even Mathematics).

As a matter of fact,of course there are more several reasons why students found it difficult to study English.Below are some other obstacles encountered by students when studying English as a second language.

Phrasal Verbs

These would be perfectly clear to native speakers, but to a class of beginner and lower intermediate students these combinations would be confusing and illogical.

• Come forward with
• Come up with
• Come down with
• Go through with
• Drop in on
• Drop out of
• Check in on
• Check up on
• Look up to
• Look down on
• Look in on

Tenses Used in English

To communicate adequately students in an English class would have to grasp the following basic tenses.

• Present tense (I do)
• Present continuous tense (I am doing)
• Present perfect tense (I have done)
• Present perfect continuous tense (I have been doing)

• Past tense (I did)
• Past continuous tense (I was doing)
• Past perfect tense (I had done)
• Past perfect continuous tense (I had been doing)

• Future tense (I will do)
• Future continuous tense (I will be doing)
• Future perfect tense (I will have done)
• Future perfect continuous tense (I will have been doing)

Irregular Verbs

There seems to be lots of these used in the English language, and the rules can be hard to understand for lower level students.

For example, sometimes the verb changes completely.

• Base form - sing
• Past simple - sang
• Past participle - sung

Sometimes there is a partial change.

• Base form - buy
• Past simple - bought
• Past participle - bought

And in some cases, there is no change at all.

• Base form - cut
• Past simple - cut
• Past participle - cut

Bizarre Vocabulary

How would you illustrate the difference between fat chance and slim chance? How about a wise man and a wise guy? The plural form of goose is geese, tooth becomes teeth and foot becomes feet. But, two notable exceptions are moose and sheep. They stay the same in the singular and plural forms. Try explaining this to a class of ESL students.

Pronunciation and Reading

English is not a phonetic language. Many words look exactly the same but are pronounced differently. An example is, "I have read that book," and "I like to read." In other instances it's the other way around, such as "I have read the book," and "My favourite color is red."

The syntax of English is inflexible compared to other languages. Sentences always follow a subject-verb-object structure. This isn't the case with some European languages like German or Dutch, where in some circumstances verbs come at the end of a sentence.

So,these are the fundamental problems encountered by most of the native speakers.And trust me, sometimes it feels like giving up teaching them the same things over and over and over again.Nevertheless,i secretly enjoy teaching them and sharing the ala kadar knowledge that i have.

Biggest Morons of the Year

Winner of the dumb corporation award... AT&T fired President John Walter after nine months saying he lacked intellectual leadership. He received a $26 million severance package. (Who's the dummy?)

No one ever said you had to be "smart" to be a cop... Police in Oakland, California spent two hours attempting to subdue a gunman who had barricaded himself inside his home. After firing ten tear gas canisters, officers discovered that the man was standing beside them, shouting out to give himself up.

A dedicated crook! A man walked into a Topeka, Kansas Kwik Shop and asked for all the money in the cash drawer. Apparently, the take was too small so he tied up the store clerk and worked the counter himself for three hours until police showed up and grabbed him. (Wonder if he paid himself time and 1/2 for the overtime?)

Please get my foot out of my mouth... Police in Los Angeles had good luck with a robbery suspect who just couldn't control himself during a lineup. When detectives asked each man in the lineup to repeat the words, "Give me all your money or I'll shoot", the man shouted, "That's not what I said!" (Turns out, the witness was Blonde and didn't pick him!)

Can you understand the words that are coming out of my mouth? A man spoke frantically into the phone: "My wife is pregnant, and her contractions are only two minutes apart." "Is this her first child?" the doctor asked. "No!" the man shouted, "This is her husband!"

One fry short of a Happy Meal... In Modesto CA, Steven Richard King was arrested for trying to hold up a Bank of America branch without a weapon. King used a thumb and a finger to simulate a gun. Unfortunately, he failed to keep his hand in his pocket. (Hellooooooo!)

A well thought out crime... An Illinois man, pretending to have a gun, kidnapped a motorist and forced him to drive to two different automated teller machines. The kidnapper then proceeded to withdraw money from his own bank account. (Maybe he should have pretended to have a brain!)

Talk about a bad day... Fire investigators on Maui have determined the cause of a blaze that destroyed a $1,270,000 home last month - a short in the homeowner's newly installed fire prevention alarm system. "This is even worse than last year, "said the distraught homeowner, "when someone broke in and stole my new security system..." (Might want to look into that guy from Illinois?)

The grand finale! Last summer down on Lake Isabella, located in the high desert an hour east of Bakersfield CA, some folks new to boating were having a problem. No matter how hard they tried, they couldn't get their brand new 22 foot boat going. It was very sluggish in almost every maneuver no matter how much power they applied. After about an hour of trying to make it go, they putted into a nearby marina, thinking someone there may be able to tell them what was wrong. A thorough topside check revealed everything in perfect working condition. The engine ran fine, the out-drive went up and down, and the propeller was the correct size and pitch. So one of the marina guys jumped in the water to check underneath. He came up choking on water, he was laughing so hard. Under the boat (remember this is true), still strapped securely in place... was the trailer!
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True Love Story

Hari ini genaplah usiaku 24 tahun iaitu pada 30hb November 2003.
Tapi hatiku rasa tidak keruan, puasku berfikir kenapa agaknya. Sedangkan pada tahun-tahun sebelumnya aku tidak pernah berperasaan begini. Lagi membuatkan aku rasa kecewa ialah pada saat-saat hari gembiraku ini orang yang paling kusayangi sudah melupai tarikh ulangtahunku.

Puas sudah kumenunggu panggilan darinya. hingga membuatkan aku tertanya-tanya kenapa dia tidak mahu menelefonku. Aku bukannya mengharapkan apa -apa cuma sekadar ucapan darinya. Itupun sudah cukup memadai bagiku. Memang aku akui aku dan dia memang jarang bertemu kerana aku di K.L manakala dia pula di Pantai timur. Jarak antara K.L dan Kelantan membataskan pertemuan kami tetapi itu tidak menghalang percintaan kami. Malah ikatan kasih sayang itu semakin bertambah dan sentiasa dibajai dengan perasan dimiliki dan ingin dimiliki.

Sedang aku termanggu sendirian, tiba - tiba aku dikejutkan dengan deringan telefon. Alangkah gembiranya hatiku apabila mendengar suaranya ditelefon. Kurasakan penantianku berhasil. Jika dia berada didepanku ingin aku mendakapnya sebagai tanda terima kasihku. Tetapi suara hatiku berkata kenapa baru sekarang dia hendak menelefonku.Argh… persetankanlah dengan semua ini. Asalkan dia sudah menelefon itu sudah mencukupi. Tetapi segala apa yang kuangankan umpama kaca terhempas ke batu. Bukan ucapan ’selamat hari lahir’ yang terungkap di bibir mungilnya tetapi dia hanya menyatakan bahawa dia tidak dapat meneruskan perhubungan kami lagi. Dan dia mendoakan agar aku tabah menghadapi hari-hari yang mendatang. Ya Allah ujian apakah ni. Begitu mudah sekali dia memutuskannya. Tidakkah dia tahu yang aku benar-benar menyintainya. Hampir 4 tahun usia percintaan yang kami bina dan dia dengan mudah sekali melafazkan kata perpisahan. Sedangkan selama ini dia tahu aku bertungkus lumus berusaha mengumpulkan wang. Ini semata-mata kulakukan untuk menyuntingnya suatu hari nanti.

Puasku memujuknya agar memberitahuku apakah kesalahan yang telah kulakukan sampaikan dia sanggup berbuat demikian. Akhirnya dengan rasa sebak dan terharu dia menyatakan bahawa dia terpaksa mengikut kehendak kedua orang tua dan keluarganya. Dimana dia akan dijodohkan dengan ahli saudara terdekatnya.

Bagaikan gelap kurasakan duniaku ini. Tambah pilu hati ini lagi apabila aku mendengar suaranya yang tidak henti-henti menangis . Kalau diikutkan hati mahu sahaja aku ke Kelantan untuk menemuinya. Tetapi apakan dayaku.

Aku benar-benar bingung ketika itu dan tidak tahu kepada siapakah untuk aku meluahkan perasaan yang berserabut ini. Ingin sahaja aku curahkan segala rasa hatiku kepada kedua ibubapaku, tetapi aku tidak sampai hati kerana selama ini mereka berharap agar aku dan dia akan bersatu. Di saat-saat ini barulah aku terfikir alangkah baiknya sekiranya aku mempunyai seorang kakak. Bolehlah aku meminta pandangannya. Hanya insan yang bernama wanita jualah yang lebih mudah memahami soal hati dan yang melibatkan perasaan kerana jiwa wanita ini amat halus dan penuh perasaan sentimental.

Hari-hari yang kulalui terasa kosong, hambar dan hilang serinya. Begitu jualah yang jelas kelihatan pada raut wajahku. Selama ini aku memang diketegorikan sebagai seorang yang terkenal dengan sikap periang. Tetapi semenjak kebelakangan ini aku mula bertukar watak malah sering bermurung. Bagiku sudah tidak ada makna lagi. Semenjak peristiwa itu aku telah berazam tidak mahu melibatkan diri lagi dalam soal percintaan. Hatiku telah tertutup rapat untuk mana-mana wanita. Aku sendiri pun tidak pasti sampai bilakah ianya akan terubat. Aku juga tidak mahu orang lain menyedari akan perubahan yang berlaku ke atas diriku. Segala susah payah biarlah ku sendiri yang menanggungnya. Bak kata pujanga “Berat mata memandang berat lagi bahuku yang memikulnya.

Ku ingatkan aku boleh bertahan tapi rupanya aku masih belum kuat lagi untuk menerima ini semua. Ku buangkan segala perasaan maluku, pernah ku menangis di hadapan 2 0rang sahabatku. Mereka jua pernah mengatakan yang mereka tidak sampai hati melihat keaadan aku dan takut ianya akan menjejaskan kerjayaku. Malah mereka berdualah yang banyak memberi ku perangsang dan semangat untuk aku terus bangun dari diselimuti oleh perasaan gundah gulana sepanjang masa. Terima kasih kalian berdua “kak jujie dan Kak shiba”.

Berkat sokongan dan dorongan dari mereka aku telah membulat tekad bahawa aku akan cuba sedaya upayaku untuk memilikinya. Bak kata pepatah “alang-alang menyeluk pekasam biar sampai ke pangkal lengan”. Berbekalkan semangat inilah aku meminta kedua ibu bapaku masuk meminang si dia. Walaupun aku sedia maklum bahawa sidia bakal dijodohkan dengan orang lain. Tetapi kurasakan yang aku masih lagi mempunyai peluang. Sedangkan orang yang sudah berkahwin pun boleh bercerai. Inikan pula si dia yang baru hendak dijodohkan dengan orang lain. Bak kata orang ” the best man win”.

Pada mulanya kedua ibu bapaku enggan menurut kehendakku tetapi disebabkan aku beria-ia akhirnya mereka mengalah. Terima kasih buat emak dan ayah. Setelah mencapai kata putus. Ibu bapaku berbincang dengan kedua ibu bapa si dia mengenai hasrat hatiku. Walaupun hanya berbicara melalui telefon, akhirnya mereka bersetuju untuk menerima aku sebagai sebahagian daripada keluarganya.

Akhirnya, setelah pelbagai dugaan telah kuharungi. Aku dan keluargaku berangkat ke Kelantan menghantar rombongan meminang. Ku panjatkan syukur ke hadrat Ilahi, pada tanggal 17/3/2004 cincin pertunanganku telah selamat disarungkan dijari manisnya. Bahagianya kurasakan disaat itu. Aku berjanji dengan orang tuanya bahawa aku akan menjaga anaknya dengan baik serta akan menjadi seorang suami dan ayah yang baik kepada cucu-cucunya kelak. Insyaalah.

Aku bersyukur pada yang Esa kerana telah memakbulkan doaku selama ini. aku juga berharap agar perhubungan ini akan terus berkekalan hingga ke akhir hayat. Walau sebesar mana pun gelombang yang melanda aku berjanji akan cuba untuk menempuhinya. Aku akan pastikan orang yang aku sayangi akan sentiasa berada disisi.
Kepada pembaca, jadikanlah kisahku ini sebagai satu ikhtibar. Sekiranya kita sayangkan seseorang cepatlah bertindak. Jangan tunggu sampai sesuatu perkara yang tidak diingini berlaku, barulah kita akan menyesal.

Nukilan : Insan Sepi

This story has touched my heart especially at the time when he cried in front of his two best friends.I can truly feel his pain.But in the end alhamdulilah..this guy memang kuat semangat and he was not giving up on her that easily.That's what im talking about dude!Most importantly in a relationship dua belah pihak mesti kuat.Like this story pihak lelaki memang kuat .It is indeed very difficult to sustain a relationship.I just don't understand why some people simply willing to cut the relationship off just because of the presence of someone that he/she barely knows.So stupid!To all blog readers, learn how to appreciate on what you have right now 'cause when it's gone, it's gone and can never be back.If you have a crush on this person, just tell them honestly the feelings that you have for her/him.At lest she/he knows and this will make you feel better.Trust me.Because you will fight for her/him just to win her/his heart until the very last minute.Love knows no surrender.Love is a battlefield.So fight for your love!